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A Heartfelt Thanks to a Rancher

November 21, 2022 by admin

Thanksgiving week is often the pinnacle point of heartfelt gratitude.  The holiday helps us to slow down and take time to see all of the goodness in our lives.  We give thanks for the families around us, the homes and careers we have, the opportunities for growing and learning and the many luxuries we have that we surely take for granted.  

High on that list of thanks should be the farmers and ranchers that help feed families around the world.  This may seem like an obvious choice but I wonder how many people actually realize that without the backbreaking work of the agriculture industry, their thanksgiving would look very different.

From the turkey at the center of the thanksgiving table to the stuffing and corn and mashed potatoes and even the sweet potato souffle, it all began in someone’s field.  Those tasty rolls began as a small wheat seed that was cultivated, harvested, milled and prepared into the flour you used to make great-grandma’s best ever roll recipe.  That sweet whipped cream started at the dairy and made its way to the shelves for you to whip up for a tasty pie garnish.  That beautiful garden salad is brought to you by the row crop farmers tending their lettuce, carrot and onion fields, just to start.     

There isn’t a single bit of Thanksgiving dinner you could have without the management and stewardship of farmers and ranchers. No, I take that back.  In this day and age there are plenty of synthetic food alternatives and imitations that you could choose from.  But synthetic foods only imitating the real flavor of a savory plate of meat and potatoes could never compare to the real thing.

Besides thanking farmers and ranchers for the foods you get to enjoy, not only on Thanksgiving day, but every day, we owe them a thanks because without them, there is so much of life we wouldn’t enjoy.  Imagine if you can, a world without large operations growing masses of food products to sell around the world.  Imagine what life would be like if you were responsible to grow and provide all of the food that you and your family would eat.

Tending to animals and crops, harvesting the meats and vegetables, processing the farm products into kitchen ready goods would be all consuming.  Think back to our pioneer ancestors and the time they gave to butcher their own animals, church their butter and grind their wheat.  If we were completely dependent on providing all our own foods we would either have very little or spend all our time growing it.

With advancements in technology came great improvements in agriculture that allowed farmers and ranchers the capacity to take on more crops and more acreage to feed more families than just their own.  As people could purchase foods, it in turn allowed them to use their time and energy in other ways.  People could follow their dreams and new ideas, whether it was an exciting career, traveling adventures or enjoying the arts.

Today we have celebrities, stars and popular figures that do very little to provide for themselves, but rather spend all their time entertaining us.  Around the world are presidents, leaders and dignitaries that work to make our countries safer to raise our families.  Our children have chances to learn more things in more ways than our forefathers could have ever dreamed of.  And all of these opportunities and more are afforded to us because we have an agriculture industry that takes on the responsibility to feed the world.

This week as you count your blessings and all the good you have, remember that so much of it comes from the good men and women that labor in fields across the world.  They deserve your thanks in so many ways.

Why a Rancher Goes to College

January 24, 2018 by Allison

We just got done with an awesome weekend with the whole family. Nothing big. Just some good food, some game time, and our favorite people. Three of The Rancher’s brothers are in college right now and coming home to the ranch is their quick breath of fresh air and their means for rejuvenation before the next week of school. I totally get the need to take a break and come up for air after so many deadlines nagging at you over and over again. Over the weekend we heard all sorts of “I gotta study for this big test…” or “I have this huge assignment coming up…” and it almost sorta, kinda took me back to the days that The Rancher and I were in school.

I had two different college experiences in the quest for my degree. The first was when I was single and living my own dream and all that was on my schedule was a little bit of school, a little bit of work, a little bit of homework, and a lot of sports games. That was my life. Oh, and trying to get into nursing school… Then I got married, moved and started a new university experience. I didn’t have an apartment of girls that I had to share the bathroom space with anymore, but I had a man that needed real food, that I had to negotiate who got the car with and that I was building a life and sharing a dream with.

It was awesome.

It was hard.

The Rancher is not a sit-down-read-the-text-book-to-learn kind of kid. There might have even been some classes that he didn’t even open his book up, let alone learn from it. He is hands on, learn as you go, trial and error kind of learning guy. He learns fast and can see so quickly how to get from A to B. But sitting in a classroom just drained the life out of him.

There were a lot of times that I heard people say, “Why is he going to school if he is just going back to the ranch? He isn’t even going to use his degree anyway. Its just a piece of paper.” And when I hear those words, my blood starts to boil.

Yes, my husband was very VERY lucky that he had a job waiting for him the day he finished college. The job he had dreamed of having his whole life. He didn’t have to do scores of applications and interviews. He was qualified for the job by his experience long before ever finishing his degree. But that doesn’t mean that his college experience wasn’t a valuable asset for him as he returned to the ranch.

Here’s why.

When a grad walks away from college, we like to think it was only worthwhile if they got a job in their field or if they are able to make money using the skills and knowledge that they gained. If not then their experience was a total waste. In The Rancher’s case, it would seem that he already knew everything he would need to know to cowboy, so what was the sense in spending all that time and money on math classes and literature classes that he would never use anyway? And of course everything they would teach him in his ag classes were things that he should already know or he wouldn’t need to use. Right? It was just as wasteful as someone that went to a trade school or did an apprenticeship but changed course after getting done. Its wasted money and time if the girl that went to beauty school doesn’t open up a salon the week after she is certified or if the boy that went for diesel mechanics doesn’t end up working on trucks. Right?

Wrong!

I get that getting degrees and certificates and those kind of things cost money. I also get that we feel that there needs to be a return on that investment that is deemed worth such an investment. But the future potential income ISN’T the only returns from going to college.

There are so many life skills learned while going to college from the little things of doing laundry to learning how to problem solve from some crazy math (I will NEVER forgot the ah-ha moment I had mid-math class when I figured out the most complex problem… Never…) . Not to mention learning how to meet deadlines and pushing through to the end when you don’t want to.

You also gain an amazing network of friends and professionals in your area of study. They are the people you can work with, lean on and learn from. They push you to be better, help pick you up when you fall, and encourage you to try again. These people are so invaluable!

Taking time to step back from the ranch to learn from other people, their experiences and knowledge widens what can be a narrow view. You learn different ways, other ways, possibly better ways to work in the same industry.
If you ask The Rancher, a boy that spent all of his growing up time on the ranch, he will immediately tell you that he uses things that he learned from his classes. Especially his ag classes. Could he still ranch and cowboy without what he learned? Probably. Is he better at doing what he loves because of it? Absolutely.

The Rancher pushed through school because we both felt it was important to him. Not just for the things he learned, but for him to accomplish something that was hard, something that he thought he wasn’t made to do. We also thought it was important for the day that he may ever have to look for a job. Our dream was always to come back to the ranch, but what if that didn’t happen? What if it took years for that? What if at some point he had to look for other work? Having a degree made him marketable. It was a safety net that we needed for our family.

I am a big proponent of getting an education, ANY education you can. Because it is there that people gain valuable experience and confidence, gain life skills, net work, and find what they do and don’t want to do with their lives. You might think that this is an expensive cost to learn what they don’t want, but gaining an education is priceless. No matter what you are learning. It can be simply that you don’t ever want to be the prescribing rations of feed supplements. It could be that you learn how interested you are in genetics.

Not everyone is made for college or trade school or an apprenticeship. But everyone is made for learning. There is a whole world out there waiting to teach us is only we are ready to learn. So don’t ever think that because you or someone you know wants to cowboy or be a rancher that they don’t need to go to college or that they shouldn’t waste their time on college. Because it isn’t wasted time. Its invested time. Support them and their want to learn, their want to do something hard. They are probably going to complain or even regret it while in the thick of it all. But when it is all over, they will tell you it was worth it!

Holiday Recap

January 5, 2018 by Allison

Can you believe Christmas has come and gone?!  Seriously, it has blown past and here we are in a new year full of potential and promise.  I get all giddy inside with the idea of a clean slate and new beginnings.  But before I jump full swing into 2018, I want to take a moment to give 2017 a proper send off. 

I had full intentions of using the holiday down time to get ahead on the space.  I dreamed of a handful of stories and photos written and edited all ready and set to post.  But there came a point that I realized I didn’t really want that.  Or at least there was something else that I wanted more. 

I love you guys and want to give you my time, but there are some people that I love even more and they are my family.  I decided that more than anything I wanted to REALLY be present over the Christmas break to make memories.  I had made a mental Holiday Bucket-List and was ready to give it my all to do them all.  There were a few things that I didn’t get in, but I can’t complain because there was so much that we DID do.

My husband probably hates it, but I like to plan things out.  When I say that I like to plan things out, that doesn’t mean that I have every minute planned, but I like to plan out what I want to do and a good idea of when.  I get scared that if we fly by the seat of our pants too much we may miss out on opportunities of fun that we could have done had we been ready for it.  Hence the reason I make a bucket-list.

What was on my bucket-list?  I’m so glad that you asked!  Sledding.  I love to sled, especially with my kids so that was high on the list and, thankfully, we were blessed with enough snow to have a great time.  In fact, it was so good we went out sledding a couple of times and managed to pull the sleds behind the 4-wheeler and do a little down-hill sledding. 

Also high on the list was our Christmas movie and hot cocoa and donut party.  The Montana Girl and I like to party… a lot… so we come up with whatever we can to have some sort of a gathering and our cozy Christmas night was just right.  I may have been super sick with a head cold so I slept through a fair amount of the movie (that we didn’t even finish), but apparently the sickness and the medicine led to a magical night… at least that is how I remember it.

 On the list is always some sort of Christmas production and for the first year in a long time I was actually about to cross this one off!  I guess I could always consider my kids Christmas program for that one… hmm…  I missed out on White Christmas so this one is going back on for next year!

 Of course it isn’t the holidays without lots of baking.  The hard thing about his item is that if I bake, then I eat them and that just causes its own problems.  I found a solution to it this year- do the baking for our Church Christmas party!  I baked about 17 dozen cookies and I loved every minute of it and I think they did too since there was only a handful of cookies left at the end of the night!

 My mother-in-law started a new tradition years ago that always adds a splash of holiday cheer to our Christmas break- building gingerbread houses!  I went for a graham cracker house this year and I have to admit that it may now be my favorite!  It’s simple and small but when that’s all I had time for it was just PERFECT! 

The Rancher’s favorite tradition I always try to include is a little skeet shooting.  This year it was even more fun because I had my very own, brand new shot gun that The Rancher had given me for Christmas!  He knows the way to this girl’s heart… 

Of course it all wouldn’t be any fun without the people to spend it with.  The family nights of games, movies, and yummy food are always my favorite.  Nothing crazy or fancy, just all of us putting aside the things that are always demanding our attention and coming together to create memories.  We are a pretty lucky family.  Right now we all live close enough together that we have a lot of opportunities to get together and I love that! 

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, friends!  I truly hope that you had a great time so slow down and take the time to love the ones that are close to you.  There is no greater gift at the Holidays than the memories that will last a lifetime!

The Rancher’s Wife

PS- So I was all ready to post this when I realized that I forgot some pretty awesome stuff.  Cowboy Pete had a terrific idea to take a day to go skiing and of course we jumped at that idea.  Although… first ride up the mountain and The Ranch Princess says to me, “Too bad we can’t just ride the lift back down and not have to ski..”  WHAT!!? She didn’t even last one run before she wanted to be done.  She said that she loved skiing.  Really, I think she just loved the lodge.  Maybe next year.

Also… We hiked up the mountain and chopped down the lovliest trees over Thanksgiving in Montana.  And they have dried up and lost ALL their needles!  The saddest little Christmas tree I have ever seen.  Haha… Can you say fire hazard?

Christmas for a Rancher

December 12, 2017 by Allison

I am a big fan of Christmas!  BIG FAN!  I love everything about it- the tree and ALL decorations, the gift wrapping, the baking, the music, the snow, the hot chocolate… ALL of it!  Except all the crazy shopping.  I do admit that my anxiety reaches an all time high when I am shopping and there are 12 other people looking over my shoulder trying to find tooth brushes too.  Ok, it was only 5, but still… CRAZY!

Shopping is especially stressful if I don’t know even what to get someone, especially The Rancher.  I can pick out Barbie’s and tractors with the best of the best.  I know my toys.  But I have those moments of total blank-ness (yep, made that word up… Merry Christmas!) when my blonde hair sinks deep in the midst of a brain fart and nothing comes to mind to put under the tree for my cowboy.  That’s when I wander the isles aimlessly hoping something will jump out at me to give him.

Obviously the smart thing to do is to ask him what he wants for Christmas.  I do.  And he doesn’t answer me.  Or he says, “I don’t need anything.  Spend it all on the kids.”  So sweet and noble, right?  But I know deep down inside that there is still a little boy inside that wants something exciting for Christmas too!  Should I resort to filling his stocking with tractors too?  I mean, there should be something besides socks in there, right?  Anyone else in this boat with me?

Actually, this year… I got a list.  Well, sort of a list.  It was a list of all things that he likes.  Not quite what I was hoping for but its definitely a start.  Ya know, for those moments that nothing comes to mind as I’m staring at the shelves with an empty cart.  (More likely when I am searching amazon with an empty cart and nothing coming to mind…) I thought I would share The List for any others that sometimes need a jump start for a cowboy.  This list is certainly not totally encompassing and lets be honest, shopping from this list could really empty out the penny jar.  But, in the case where a girl just doesn’t know what to get her cowboy, this might just get you through.

A cowboy hat– They can never have enough.  Ever.  Just when I think he is good, its time for a new one.  And there are so many kinds you can have and they need to have them ALL.

Horse tack-  Sometimes I feel bad getting him tack because that seems like work stuff.  I try to be a little more original than that.  So that’s when I get maybe a little fancier bit.  Make it seem like more than just ‘work stuff.’

Clothes-  The Rancher can go through work shirts and jeans like candy.  Barbed wire, pocket knives, oil stains, poop… It is all hard on his clothes and a wardrobe upgrade is always welcome.

Boots- He teases me about how many shoes I have, but does he really need so many boots?  Yes, he really does and there is always room for more!

Tools-  Whether it is a new Leatherman or knife or wrenches or whatever, more is certainly merrier.  Because tools get lost all. the. time!

Cowboy gear-  What cowboy doesn’t want a new pair of chaps or a new work coat or wild rag or gloves?  It may seem like a boring gift but they will put a smile on their face for sure!

Gun-  Guns and ammo are always good.  Yep.

Then there is always the list like- a new custom saddle, a new truck, a new trailer, a new horse…. the dreamer list.  If you can shop the dreamer list you have made their Christmas for sure!  I haven’t made that yep but someday… maybe…

Now that I have shared a few ideas to get you through some cowboy Christmas shopping, what are you getting your cowboys?  What do you want for Christmas? Merry Christmas, Friends!

Thankful for the Moments

November 25, 2017 by Allison

Happy Thanksgiving!  Wasn’t it a terrific day yesterday?  A day full of eating and family and eating and sleeping and eating and fun!  Actually, I don’t think I got an-after-lunch-nap but that’s ok.

I like my Thanksgivings best when its steeped in tradition and intentional.  We can eat a turkey any day and we can over-indulge whenever we want, but to be really be Thanksgiving, this day has to be more than that.

My mom has a tradition every Thanksgiving.  Its simple.  Its easy. But it helps me keep Thanksgiving more than just a day about eating. 

Every year my mom pulls out her hand drawn thankful turkey and carefully puts it on the wall.  To begin with he looks a little sad, so bare because he doesn’t have any feathers yet.  But as the days surrounding Thanksgiving pass, he is filled with colorful feathers inscribed with the blessings that we are most grateful for.  Some of them say “family.”  Some of them say “God.”  Some of them say “my blankie.”  And some of them even say, “my hot wife!”  They aren’t elaborate or fancy, but they are true, heartfelt things we are grateful for.

For this first time ever, I struggled to know what to write.  Not because I wasn’t grateful, but because I was so grateful for so many things I just didn’t know what to pick.  We have been blessed with a beautiful home in a place that we get do what we love to do.  We are constantly surrounded by good friends and family.  We have so many opportunities to learn, to serve, and to grow.  And while our year was so full, it was so full of blessings!  I just didn’t know what to write.

As I sat there trying to decide what to put on my empty thankful feather I began to think back through this year and all the things we had done and I began to realize that what I treasure most are the moments.  Those special moments you breath in deep because you know just how fleeting they can be.  Those moments you pause to take it all in so you can remember the sounds and smells that wrap around you.  Those moments that seem to make a place deep within your soul.

Those moments came as I stood with my kids as the heavy snowflakes drifted down from a peaceful winter storm while we were building a snowman.  They came as we worked in the garden, planting, weeding and watering lending to our eventual harvest.  It was in the quiet that I had those special moments when I rocked my growing baby before bed.  More came as we worked together as a family to fill our yard with new grass.  Some of those moments were spent late at night as we talked and laughed with our brothers and sisters. 

There are so many things in this life that I wish we could have or that I could give to my family.  We fill our lives with things or with moments and if I had to choose what my kids filled their lives with, it would be these moments.  More than anything, I hope that they hang on to them.  That they cherish them.  Because all of the things that they have will slip away, but these moments are for them to keep forever. 

There was no better thing for me to be thankful and to put on my feather than “the moments.”  What are you thankful for in this season of gratitude?  There are no wrong answers because being grateful is so much more important than what we are grateful for.  If you haven’t, take a minute and look through your life and find those things that bless your life. 

Happy Thanksgiving, Friends!

From a very grateful Rancher’s Wife

 

The Idaho Rancher’s Wife Braves the Stage

November 17, 2017 by Allison

True to my word, here I am, telling you about my experience speaking at the ICA Annual Convention.  I’m still in shock that people wanted to hear from me and ask questions about what I do.  I’m also a little in shock that I am posting twice in one week!  Maybe this can become a regular thing….

Tuesday I was part of a panel to speak on different forms of advocacy and just briefly describe the how’s and why’s of doing it.  Speaking out about ranching and trying to connect with people is become really important these days.  It is easy to become disconnected from the things that keep our world running whether it is knowing where our food is coming from or how the plumbing in our homes work. 

While I was there to talk about how I reach out through blogging, there was another woman, Cheyenne Smith, there to speak on how she is apart of the ranching and beef conversation through twitter.  I was really impressed how she wants people to care about us as ranchers and as people providing food for families.  By sharing the tidbits from her everyday life, she helps people really see what ranching is like.  If you are tweeter (is that even a thing?), go find her @JLazySAngus.  Not only does she have great insight to ranching, but she has a great network to be a part of.

The other presenter on our panel was Matt Brechwald and how he goes about advocating really impressed me.  A little back story…  After college, he ended up living and working in the city.  Eventually, he realized that he was not happy with where is life was taking him.  So, he and his wife found some land that they could relocate to and start their own ranching experience.  In order to make ends meet, he used his skills, machinery, and tools from the ranch to create a side job.  As he was out working one day, he realized what an awesome thing he had been able to do and how he needed to share that.  He started doing podcasts, highlighting his journey to what he was doing and how others could do it too.  To find more about his story and his podcasts you can go to his site at www.offincome.com.

It was really a great experience sharing the mic with these people and helping to share the importance of advocacy, why we love it and how others can do it too.  I’ll admit, I was so nervous to begin with.  And through most of it… In fact, there was one point that the moderator asked me a question and I was in the middle of answering it with one of my stories.  And all the sudden I realized I couldn’t remember what I had been saying and couldn’t even remember where I was going with it.  Haha… You can laugh at me… I am!  Once we were done with our two 25 minute session I was finally relaxed enough that I felt ready to start.  Pretty unfortunate that it was all over, huh? 

You are probably thinking that I am last person that should be telling other people to get out there blogging because I struggle in this realm myself.  I can be inconsistent and unreliable, and that is a hard pill to swallow.  But yesterday I realized that what I do have is that I keep coming back to it.  This experience may have been more important to me that for anyone else because it reminded me why I do this.  And maybe now I have recommitted myself with new a new drive and hope for what I can do here in this space to reach out and advocate for something I believe in so strongly!

Hey From the ICA!

November 14, 2017 by Allison

I’m writing to you from the snow-capped mountains of Sun Valley, Idaho!  Actually, they are more like snow dusted but it sounds more exciting the other way…  But I am sitting here waiting for my baby to fall asleep and thought I would take a minute to come talk to you!

Every year we take off this week to be a part of the Idaho Cattle Association’s annual convention.  It’s partly because it’s the closest thing we get to a work trip but also because it is a terrific place for a cattle producer to get a little extra help. Here’s why…  ICA is an organization created to support cattle ranchers at the grass roots level and take action wherever and however it is needed.  Ranchers are busy keeping up with all the problems at home- fencing, feeding, calving, haying, ect., that they don’t have time to face the big picture ranching problems- fighting public lands issues, water rights, endangered species stuff, ect…

A few years ago, the government was attempting to regulate what work kids could do on the ranch.  They were claiming that kids were too young to operate tools, machinery and work with animals.  Yes, it may be surprising at how young our kids do start working on the ranch but when they are totally immersed in the lifestyle, its actually more of a challenge to keep them from helping!  My seven year old son BEGS to help chase cows and rides a horse for hours.  My four year old daughter stood by the chute for hours loading the tagger for her dad because SHE wanted to.  Kids learn by watching, so naturally, ranch kids learn quickly how to do the work that they see happening all around them. 

It was organizations like ICA that were able to stop the regulations from actually becoming reality.  They knew what we needed as ranchers and, more importantly, they knew what to do.  They have the contacts, the research, the lobbyists, the time and the knowhow. 

The ICA not only advocates for ranchers against those that try to tear down the industry, but they do a lot to promote beef and keep ranchers up to date with the best minds, technology, and resources to keep ranching efficient and up to the demands we face.

Aside from getting a little vacation and a little knowledge, this year we have a few different reasons to be here.  One- The Rancher has been asked to be on the ICA board to represent our area.  He is a little nervous but also excited for the opportunity for a little growth.  The second reason we really needed to be here is that I get to present on my blog and you!

Did your jaw just drop?

Ya mine did too when I was first.  Before I knew it, I answered yes and then I thought, “Um… do they know who I am?  Do they know how little I really know about this?”  But none the less, I am here ready to present tomorrow and pray that it all goes well. 

I’ll be sure to update you when I am done…  Wish me LUCK!

The Reality Is…

November 2, 2017 by Allison

… Its November…

GASP!!

I can’t believe that not only is summer gone, like LONG GONE, but Fall is on its way out.  And so much has happened in that time.  The good news is, I FINALLY (mostly, or almost mostly) have the new look for the blog up and running.  The reality is that I am NOT web designer and so what I thought would be a quick and easy change was anything but…  There is still a handful of surprises I have up my sleeve but I have enough done that I might sleep at night and NOT stress over it all.

I don’t have the time or the head space to give you a complete update on everything that has happened between now and then.  But here is the highlights reel of the summer.

The kids and I made a trip to Montana- a much needed break and chance for renewal before a long and crazy summer.  The highlight of that week had to be the basketball camp that The Rancher’s Sidekick got to be a part of.  I have to admit that I was swelling with pride because I went to that same camp since I was a girl in second grade and it was my high school basketball coach that put on the camp!

My Montana skies!

Between The Rancher and I, we had FIVE different family reunions scheduled throughout the summer.  No, we didn’t make them all, and that’s ok.  We still had lots of time to reconnect with family, especially those that we don’t have the opportunity to see often.  Highlights included fishing, water slides, bon fires (and consequently FIRE TREATS!), and late night games.  Low-lights include being stuck at the mechanics for SEVEN hours, stomach bug while camping, and never enough time for it all.

My sister planned an EPIC road trip for herself and I was privileged enough to kick it off with her.  The Cowboy Kid (my littlest) and I braved a plane to California, two full days of driving to Arizona (where we surprised our brother) and a flight back home in just a few days.  Once again never enough time, but still so much fun.  I have a whole new appreciation of how much I love where we live.  One, because it isn’t swarming with people and two, because it isn’t a desolate, dreary, bleak, sterile desert.  I mean, we live in a desert, but at least we have cedar trees and sage brush growing!

Road trippin’… (we really had fun despite these crazy faces!)

Even though it was summer, there was so much work to be done on the ranch.  We rolled from crazy winter to busy calving to hectic branding to a quick turnout to rushed spring field work.  This was our first spring with the new pivots (Christmas in May!!) and there was a heavy learning curve and lots of kinks to work out.  I wish I could have had a dollar for every time The Rancher said,  “We shouldn’t have to touch the cows until…” or “The field work should be down now…” because I swear Karma would kick in and we would inevitably have something come up that we STILL didn’t have a chance to catch our breath. Maybe we will after the calves are all gone?  The reality is, catching our breath is pretty unlikely because we just don’t know how to slow down!

Getting the pivots up and running

A little spring farming!

Out on the range to check water with The Rancher

Of course we had our hands full of rodeos and roping all along the summer.  The Rancher’s Sidekick even took a chance to ride into the arena and do a little sorting like the big boys.  I don’t know how well he did, but it didn’t matter when you saw the smile he had on his face.  All I could do was pray that he didn’t fall off and all he could do was beam with pride!

No summer would be complete without a little fire action.  Unfortunately a lot of the action we had was on our private and BLM rangeland in Locomotive.  And of course Mother Nature has no regard to Holidays or family time so Fourth of July fireworks had a whole new meaning and the dust was a little thicker with smoke at the Annual Stone Rodeo.

When we actually managed to be home and NOT working, we poured sidewalks and laid sod!  I had been saving my pennies for a good long time and it was all worth it to a new sprinkler system, established grass and sidewalks instead of mud!  It might actually be worth dusting now that we don’t live in a giant dirt bowl… HA!  The reality is that even though I don’t have as much dust, I still don’t have any more time to clean!

The summer closed out with fairs, concerts (can you say bucket list!) and a wedding (Cowboy Pete tied the knot! More on that later, for sure!!)!  Being on the County Fair Board is exhausting but always worthwhile.  From ropings to horse races to hog washes, we did it all!  Probably one of the highlights of my summer and the best way to end it was to go to a Home Free concert!  The music was awesome, my date was the best and having a TERRIFIC babysitter was the icing on the cake!

Home Free date night!

We are full swing into school and fall work and back into some sort of routine.  We eat, sleep, work, play and pray.  The reality is, I don’t ever feel caught up and I never feel like I am doing good enough at any of it.  But as a good friend recently told me, we are too blessed to be stressed.

Until next time, Friends!

Changes Going on Over Here

June 5, 2017 by Allison

I love blogging.  I LOVE it!  And I also hate it…  Because as much as I love writing and telling stories and my photography… I hate sitting at the computer.  And it is always pulling my chain.  The days between posts can slip by so fast and then I feel guilty and terrible and frustrated at not being consistent and organized enough to keep things going. 

But I keep doing it because I LOVE IT!

We have had this conversation before…

Usually my absence on here is due to the busy rancher’s-wife-and-little-cowboy-momma life I lead but for the next few weeks you won’t here from me for a good reason instead of my slacking.

Are you confused?  Or maybe just wondering what the heck I am talking about…  I’ll tell you what I’m talking about.  For the last several months I’ve had big plans in the works.  Actually I have been dreaming of big things for even longer and now I am pulling the trigger.

I am giving my blog a facelift!  Its not that I don’t love how things look now, its just that I want to add more.  I want to incorporate so much more for you and for me.  Knowing me, it is actually going to go quite slow to get everything where and how I want it.  But in the next few weeks you will see the beginning and I’m so excited for it.

So… you won’t hear from me for a few weeks and even though that isn’t uncommon for me, it is on purpose!  

Pausing for Perspective

May 24, 2017 by Allison

I love my life.  I really do.  Its amazing how much joy and satisfaction I find in what we do.  I get to watch my kids learn and grow and fail and succeed.  They get to watch their dad work and see what it means to have responsibilities and carry them out.  It is exhausting and amazing and inspiring…  and exhausting.

I love our life but it is exhausting.  Most of the time when life gets busy and exhausting, you pause, give yourself some space, do something new to recharge yourself, and then jump back in.

We don’t do that. 

Not that we don’t believe it taking a break, but its kinda difficult.  With cows, irrigating, haying, feeding, checking water, and all the other things on the never ending check list, we don’t have the time to just up and leave.  Not to mention the fact that we live in the middle of nowhere and going anywhere requires plenty of travel time. 

But that’s ok.

We may to be able to be world travelers or we might not have the opportunities to visit exotic places.  Its all ok, because we have an entire world to explore in our back yard.  We have horses and 4wheelers and mountains and trails.  We really have everything we need.

What we do, everyday, is what we love.  Yes, we get tired of the daily grind, but that is when we load up in the gator and go for a ride.  And we take a moment to refocus on what our priorities are and then we get back to it. 

I’m in desperate need for such a pause.  I am feeling the weight of the work that needs to be done on our home, for our community, in the fields…  There is always more work to be done than there is time and energy.  Think I can talk The Rancher into taking me on a romantic motorcycle ride tonight? 

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I was dosed with my fair share of anxiety when I c I was dosed with my fair share of anxiety when I came into this world, enough that if I let it, would keep me from trying anything new. 

But I refuse to live small and let those fears win. 

So every day I choose to step outside my comfort zone and do something scary. It has been the most empowering and liberating thing I have ever done. 

Most recently I took on feeding the cows solo. Not a big deal for some but for me it was an experience outside my comfort zone that I needed to conquer, so I did. 

It wasn’t as fast as what The Rancher can do, nor was it as pretty, but the cows got fed, the tractor is still running, and no babies were ran over in the process. 

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Sometimes the days with the least amount of work t Sometimes the days with the least amount of work to do can have the biggest impact. I love the weeks of moving cows, branding, or working cattle through the squeeze cute but these quieter make me live this life a whole other way. 

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I love cows, especially when the chubby ones come I love cows, especially when the chubby ones come sprinting for cake. What can I say, come running for cake too! 😝 #cakeforcows #cowsonthemove #cattle #ranching #ranchlife #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
No rain. It sucks. As ranchers we not only worry No rain. It sucks. 

As ranchers we not only worry if there is enough feed but if there is enough IN the feed to give our cattle what they need when there is no rain. 

Fortunately this is no longer the generation of ranching that is forced to rely solely on what the range can provide when it comes to complete cattle nutrition. 

Hallelujah for supplements! 

These days we have better access to more nutritional supplements to grow the best possible beef. Three cheers to the scientists, nutritionists, salesmen and everyone in between to help us fill the gaps👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

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I’m going out on a limb to admit this out loud b I’m going out on a limb to admit this out loud but as a ranch wife I love the end to daylight savings... I actually look forward to it!  I know, probably an unpopular opinion. While the rest of the world is mourning the beginning of short days and long dark nights, I celebrate the season’s end to the nearly bottomless work days that seem to only stop when the sun has. 

Tractor lights and heated shops will occasionally add a few long days here and there for the determined rancher types, but for the most part sundown will close out the work day.  And for ranch wives that means the honey-do list, date night, and an early bedtime can finally have their place in the schedule.

Anyone with me? 

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When You Give a Ranchkid a Pocket Knife… Nothin When You Give a Ranchkid a Pocket Knife…

Nothing is safe at our house right now. We have three little boys, ok one is a teenager and not quite so little, that have begged to have their own pocket knives like dad. Between babysitting, Christmas and birthdays, somehow they all have their own shiny multi-tool and belt toting pouch to keep them in and I’m just not so sure how we got to this point....
 
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We waited nearly an extra month for this sweet fil We waited nearly an extra month for this sweet filly tin she her arrival. Her mother, grandmother, and great grandmother have all been a part of this ranch in one way or another. We are excited to see what will be in her future. Born on Cinco de Mayo to a momma dubbed Loca (because she used to be straight up crazy!), we are excited for Chica to join our little horse herd. #filly #foal #horse #ranchhorse #ranchlife #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
The branding season is starting to wind down and I The branding season is starting to wind down and I have to say it’s been the best one yet. And while it’s been good to get the work done, the best part of it all has to be the people. 
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Every single day we head out to brand, we have gathered with our friends, family and neighbors to get the job done. It’s exhausting work but these people make it so much more than work. 
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From the cooks to the kids, every single person is a part of making these days meaningful. 
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Its the old rancher that tells me “get in there, sis” when I’m feeling nervous to rope
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It’s the ground crew that patiently teaches my 7 year old son how to castrate and brand when he is determined to be in the thick of it. 
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It’s the many kind ropers that give my oldest son countless chances to throw a loop when it might be faster and easier to do it themselves. 
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It’s the families that come together to laugh and play.
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It has been a trying year but I have to admit, I’m grateful to have these people for it. These people make the tough days less hard. These people make it worth trying. 
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These people aren’t perfect by any means. There are disagreements and frustrations. But in the end these are MY PEOPLE. They always will be. 
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The calendar says it’s spring today but when I l The calendar says it’s spring today but when I look outside and at the forecast,  I just see snow and cold! 😝😂🤪😩
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But I’m gonna believe it anyway! Bring on the spring because I’m ready for a little warmth and sunshine. 
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What is spring looking like in your part of the country? Tell me in the comments👇🏻 
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Paraphrasing one of my favorite quotes, “When li Paraphrasing one of my favorite quotes, “When life gets hard you can either laugh or cry about it. Crying gives me a headache so I guess I’ll have to laugh!😂 “
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Not gonna lie, it’s been a pretty challenging week. Snow, wind, mud, puddles and a cow’s nature to dump her calf in the worst possible spot all add up to a lot of work but maybe not a lot of progress. 
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So instead of crying at the end of those long hard days, I’ve gotta find something to smile at to keep going for the next day and the day after that. 
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Here’s irony for ya- last year we had to feed ou Here’s irony for ya- last year we had to feed our cattle we winter in Locomotive because there just wasn’t enough feed on the ground out there. 
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This year we are feeding the cattle because there is so much snow out there, it’s too hard to get what grass is under there. 
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We could be cussing but we are so thankful for the snow that aren’t doing that! We feel blessed to have the hay to do it, the space to do it and the hope for another blessed year to keep doing it. 
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Oh, heavens, friends… isn’t life grand?! Isn’t it amazingly overwhelming and gratifying and terrifying all at once? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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In all the different seasons and phases in life, all of the changing circumstances, new opportunities and moments of uncertainty we will feel over whelmed. We will have days that we don’t think we can measure up. But those days are there to help us see how strong we are when raise ourselves back up. And. Keep. Going. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Hands down, he’s my favorite and I’m so glad h Hands down, he’s my favorite and I’m so glad he is dad to my kids. He always takes time to play and laugh. When there’s an owie he is always there to rub it better. He is always game to have a work buddy or two or three or four. Everyone agrees he’s the best breakfast cooker around. Happy Father’s Day to the best dad to our little posse! #fathersday #ranchdad #dad #therancher #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
Branding has come and gone faster than I could hav Branding has come and gone faster than I could have believed! 

We just moved from one branding day to the next and then the next and suddenly it was over! 

It wasn’t all fresh peaches and unicorn farts (both magical but at least peaches make their appearance a little moser often) but we loved it all-the work, the people, the laughs, the food. 

I’d say let’s do it all again except I’m too tired right now 😝. Soon enough (but not really...). 

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Sometimes I worry that society is turning its back Sometimes I worry that society is turning its back on our heritage. We are being told constantly that “meat” or “beef” or “agriculture” is the problem with, well, everything. 
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They focus on what they THINK we are taking away from people- clean air or health... 
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But they never stop to think what we are giving, what we have been giving for hundreds of years. 
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Let me be that voice today. You can do this! You are enough! You are going to make mistakes and things might be messy, but you are going to be better for it. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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