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Breaking in New Horses

April 18, 2014 by Allison

Every cowboy has a good string of horses and this spring we have been working on ours.  We have two new mares that we have been working with.  Both of them have been pretty labor intensive but with time we have seen some great progress.

The sorrel (red) horse with a white blaze is Loca.  She is a baby from The Rancher’s mare when he was growing up.  If you know Spanish, you know that Loca means crazy.  She’s named that for a reason! For a couple of years now, The Rancher has been trying to work with her.  She’s about to turn 6 (or maybe 7… I’m not quite sure) and for that many years she has been a wild thing.  Too wild to really do anything with.  We haven’t really even been able to get a halter on her, let alone try anything with a saddle.

One day The Rancher was working with her and he had a rope around her neck.  She went to being crazy (like she doe)s and got the rope caught on the fence.  She hit the slack and it tightened up around her neck.  Being crazy already, she started working against the rope and before long it was tight enough that she passed out.  When she tipped over, the rope broke free and loosened up around her neck.  Slowly she got up and walked to The Rancher.  It was like she was a completely new horse! And ever since that day, she has been a gem to work with.

The Rancher has been a little weary of her, knowing how she used to be a little crazy.  But every time he has worked with her its like she has done it hundreds of times.  Now all we need is to get a little experience on her and she is good to go!

Our other new horse is Sugar.  We bought her from a family that had a few horses and other animals, but they really didn’t have the time to work with her.  When we called to tell them we were on our way (it was a few hours to get there) they said, “Are you good with horses?  I don’t think that she has ever been loaded in a trailer…”. Oh boy that was a great start!

Don’t worry, she practically loaded herself!  The next day we saddled her up to see what kind of skills she had.  After only a few minutes The Rancher said, “Well… she has no manners, no steering, and no gas.” I guess that left only room for progress!   And boy have we made some progress-  we can actually get into a good lope and move left and right.  Its still rough, but with time she is going to be a great little pony!

 

Maternity Pen Prep- We’re Ready For Babies

February 13, 2014 by Allison

A little something you should know about The Rancher- if there is something that needs fixing he will do and when he does it, he fixes in a big way. 

With calving just around the corner The Rancher is finding and fixing everything that needs updated.  The major one has been the maternity pen.

Last year it was such a struggle to get the heifers in when you were alone, so that was high on the list to get fixed.  He spent a few days in the shop making a new gate to replace some old panels (that, of course, we were there to “help” put up).  They put in a few man-gates to make it easy to move from pen to pen.  The last day they replaced a handful of poles and added some tin for a windbreak.

It makes me feel better that these new mamas have their own maternity bay- all fixed up and ready to go.  Granted, we don’t really want to use it because that means there are problems… but still its nice having it there! 

So lets have some babies!  (don’t let The Rancher know I’m begging for the calves to start coming!)

Good Fences Make Good Neighbors

December 10, 2013 by Allison

A fellow rancher from the Curlew Valley decided that it was finally time redo the fence that we share.  For some time they have had trouble with his cows sneaking in with ours and I think he got tired of us calling him to take them back to his side.  So on one a cool November day they loaded up their hammers and nails and got to work. 

Fencing isn’t my favorite chore- I’m sure it was the hot summers. But The Rancher likes it. Its one of things that you can really do well.  There’s not anything much prettier than a new, tight, straight fence.

After building so many fences it is second nature to these cowboys.  Without talking they know how far apart to space out the posts, where to put in a brace and all the parts and pieces to make it work.  They get right to it and go until the work is done … or dark. 

There was more fence to build than daylight this time, so they went back out to finish the work just last week.  I don’t have any pictures of them working that day because it was cold and snowy.  My warm slippers begged me to stay home!

The Rancher, a DIY-er

November 19, 2013 by Allison

I love DIY projects, LOVE them.  The Rancher does too, maybe not the ones I enlist him to do, but he des non the less.  He likes the manly ones that come with bigger or more dangerous tools.  I mean what is a welder if not a really hyped up glue gun, right? šŸ™‚

But seriously, isn’t that really a integral part of being a rancher.  These cowboy need to be able switch between whatever jobs the day calls for- truck driver, irrigator, welder, tractor operator, horse trainer, nurse maid… You get the idea, they gotta do it all.  They are DIY-ers. 

 This is the feed truck with arms to lift the bails.  Do you see how my creative husband has fanagled it to lift the troughs?  I find funny, but boy it is works darn good.

 


 
Here is real picture of The “DYI” Rancher.  Pretty cool.  Finding your own way to get the job done, or being a DIY-er, is part of being a rancher.

A Real Fireman

October 9, 2013 by Allison

The Rancher is very involved in volunteer programs in our community.  He is with the Search and Rescue, Fire Chief of our local community, and runs with the EMTs.  There was a point that I thought he was crazy but we had a good talk about why he does it.

He explained that when we are wanting to live away from the city for the space needed to run a ranch (or to stay sane), we are giving up the luxury of being close which equals taking on the risk of being so far from certain conveniences, or necessities.  And when we take on the risks, we also must take on the responsibilities. 

So The Rancher has taken on the responsibility to be the local fire chief.  And with that comes some pretty fun perks- like visiting the local elementary.

Where’s Waldo?

September 25, 2013 by Allison

Actually in this picture you won’t find Waldo.  But if you used to read those books you won’t have any problems finding The Rancher.  And can you find two other cowboys?

Made it to the Finals!

September 13, 2013 by Allison

After the summer of team penning and brandings (and sortings… I don’t know why we don’t ever mention that in the name…) the winners have a chance to come back at one final competition.  The Rancher made it on a team for the team sort.  The team wasn’t too competitive but The Rancher did good.  And more importantly he looked good doing it!

 The Rancher’s Sidekick even took some pictures on my phone.  Yes, kids are so tech savvy…

 Can you see all of the MUD in the arena?  We had a beautiful, wonderful rain storm the night before that soaked the arena.  Along the side of the grandstand was especially bad because there was runoff from the roof as well.  It made for a fun ride! 

The Super Rancher

September 6, 2013 by Allison

There is a lot that being a dad requires.  Probably more than what The Rancher ever thought he would have to do (you can imagine some of the icky things has been privileged to do).  But there are days the cool days when he is so much more than a dad.  Days when he gets to strap on his Super Hero cape and save the day!

Like Friday.  I opted to not do laundry and go on a rough romantic ride to help fix fence (read wrangle kids while The Rancher fixes fence).  This fence was by a water trough, that had a hole.  Which meant there was mud… everywhere.  That innate-boy-instinct to get in the mud got the best of The Rancher’s Sidekick and before long he was in the mud UP TO HIS KNEES.  This momma was so thankful he was in shorts and water boots (minus socks).  Ya, we have learned over time…

But when you are up to your knees in mud you need a little help.  A Super Hero to save the day!  Like The Super Rancher!  What a dad!

The Art of a Cowboy

July 31, 2013 by Allison

Being a cowboy is so much more than just riding a horse and following the cows.  It may appear that it is all that they do but once you get to know them and watch what they do you realize that there is so much more to it.  Most of it is instinct.  Its like a sixth sense that they gain over time and through experience.  They are born with a certain ability to connect with the animals.  They learn to be fearless or need be to face their fears.  There are people that say that ranchers or cowboys are the uneducated ones that couldn’t make it in the world.  Maybe they couldn’t make it sitting behind a desk all day but that is because God gave them gifts that we can afford for them to waste.  You should come and try to do what they do.  What they do is an art.  There is no other way to explain it.

The Rancher Playing Cowboy

June 19, 2013 by Allison

I shouldn’t say that he is “playing” cowboy because he really is a real cowboy!  During the summer the guys have penning heifers that they take around to some of the Team Penning and Brandings.  The best part about it is that since he is already there hauling or working the heifers he is available to do some riding and roping too!  Of course as the dutiful rancher’s wife I load up the diaper bag, camera, and lunch box and follow him along the rodeo trail!  Oh, we bring the kids too… I couldn’t never leave behind The Sidekick- he is The Rancher’s biggest fan!

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Living on cattle, cocoa & kids running wild.
Daily ranch life, western style all with a side of dirt.

Romance doesn’t always come by candlelight. We ha Romance doesn’t always come by candlelight.

We had dinner reservations that night.
The cows had other ideas.

And somewhere between the dust, the frustration, and the manure on my fancy clothes, I was reminded of something.

Love out here isn’t separate from the work.
It’s built inside of it.

It’s built when you both run toward the problem.
When you adjust the plan.
When you show up anyway.

Two hands.
One direction.

There’s a longer version of this story on the blog — but this might be my favorite part of it.

#lifeonacattleranch
#marriedtoarancher
#ranchlife
#westernmarriage
#builtinthework
Roses are red, Violets are blue, We had Valentine’ Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
We had Valentine’s plans…
But the cows broke through!

Boots polished, hair in place,
Dressed up for our night,
Reservations waiting
Under the city lights.

But then we saw them—
Or maybe we didn’t,
A herd of wild backsides
Slipping out of sight.

Nothing says romance
Like a runaway cow chase,
Down the winding highway,
Our hearts already start to race.

Flying out of the pickup
Before it came to a stop,
I’m fairly certain
The Rancher thought I was hot.

Finally to dinner,
Out in the town,
With a hint of manure
Dusting my cowgirl gown.

Maybe this is romance,
Rough, wild, and true—
A night just for us,
Until the cows break through.

Happy Valentines from The Idaho Ranchers Wife!

#marriedtoarancher 
#lifeonacattleranch 
#ranchlifehumor 
#valentineranchstyle 
#loveandlivestock
Every handle has a purpose. Every hand knows the w Every handle has a purpose. Every hand knows the work

#marriedtoarancher 
#lifeonacattleranch 
#HandsOnTheLand 
#RanchLifeBW 
#BehindTheBrand
Confidence comes early. Experience takes longer. Confidence comes early. Experience takes longer.

Some days, I watch our little rancher ride along and marvel at how certain he is about everything. Which pivot should be on or off, which cows should have moved yesterday… the commentary never stops. And yet, he’s learning something quietly bigger than any instruction: that there isn’t one right way to do this work.

Ranching, like parenting, like life, has room for mistakes, experimentation, and figuring out your right way.

There’s more than one right way — and the best one is the one that works for you.

To read more, find the link in my bio. 

#lifeonacattleranch
#marriedtoarancher 
#confidenceplusexperience 
#therightway 
#ranchlife
I used to think standing out was the goal—not to b I used to think standing out was the goal—not to be better, just to feel unique.

Now I’m realizing how freeing it is to be who you are without separating yourself from everyone else.

Ordinary isn’t small.
It’s grounded.
And you can still stand out—
even when you’re part of the herd.

#MarriedToARancher
#LifeOnACattleRanch
#Belonging
#QuietConfidence
#EnoughAsYouAre
On a ranch, learning is rarely free. Sometimes the On a ranch, learning is rarely free.
Sometimes the cost is time. Sometimes pride. Occasionally, far more than we expected.

I learned that the hard way years ago, running an old red swather I was sure I had mastered — until confidence outran attention and the lesson arrived all at once.

Now, I watch my kids learn in their own ways. A six-year-old eager for his turn on the tractor. A teenager discovering that even good runs don’t last forever. Different moments, same truth: experience doesn’t spare us from mistakes — it simply gives them more context.

This week’s story sits with those lessons. With paying attention. With letting people learn. And with why the lessons that cost us something are often the ones that stay.

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•	#marriedtoarancher
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Every morning is a quiet invitation to start again Every morning is a quiet invitation to start again.
To notice more. To assume less.
To pay attention to what’s working and what needs adjusting.

It’s a reminder that experience doesn’t mean we’re finished learning — only that we’re willing to keep showing up.

#lifeonacattleranch
#marriedtoarancher 
#freshstart 
#ontheopenrange 
#learnsomethingnew
Saying we went out to ā€œcheck waterā€ never is just Saying we went out to ā€œcheck waterā€ never is just about checking water when we are out on the range. 

It doesn’t say anything about bumping across the range, guessing which road to take when I’m in the drivers seat(and making a U-turn when I guess wrong), or helping a wayward sheep find its own herd. 

We never know what our weekly water checks bring, but I can only hope I get the nap next time. 

	•	#lifeonacattleranch
	•	#marriedtoarancher
	•	#RanchWork
	•	#RangeLife
	•	#WorkingRanch
Ranch life isn’t all wide-open spaces and sunsets. Ranch life isn’t all wide-open spaces and sunsets.

Sometimes it’s a very close inspection from someone who clearly doesn’t believe in personal space.

Like Connie. She doesn’t believe in personal space. And we love her anyway. 
 
#ranchlife #lifeontherange #everydayranching #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher 

Wide open or up close and personal— we choose this life both ways.
Some days look like work. Some look like play. Mos Some days look like work.
Some look like play.
Most are both.

#RanchLife
#LearningByDoing
#RaisedOutside
#LifeOnaCattleRanch
#MarriedToaRancher
Everyone has a story to tell, and I’ve learned tha Everyone has a story to tell, and I’ve learned that I love sharing mine. From funny moments with my kids to my own personal struggles, every chapter matters to me.

Stories like…

…how I always wanted to marry a cowboy—and I did. It looks much different than I imagined—less trees and more desert, for sure—but somehow it’s even better than I ever dreamed.

…how feeding cows every. single. day. might look like our own version of Groundhog Day, yet I look forward to the consistency, the daily check-ins, and the simple reason to head out with the herd.

…how I never learned to rope before meeting my husband, and how determined I’ve been to learn. Some days I was terrified to set my loop up, afraid of messing up or making a scene—but the satisfaction of actually doing it always outweighs the fear.

…how, even as a little girl, my soul yearned to be out working with my dad on the ranch. It was nothing for me to abandon playtime in the yard for work time in the fields.

…how my life is built on choices. I don’t have to be on the ranch—I choose it, because I love the work and being part of something bigger than myself.

These aren’t milestones or a timeline. They’re glimpses of life as I live it.
A story I can’t wait to share more of.
Winter slows things down enough to notice what usu Winter slows things down enough to notice what usually gets overlooked.

On the ranch, progress is rarely dramatic. It’s built quietly, one small decision at a time.

Read more about tradition, stewardship, and the small changes that shape an operation over time. You can find the link in my bio.

#ranchlife #AgLife #stewardship #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
There’s something grounding about a year that begi There’s something grounding about a year that begins and ends on the range. 

Early mornings, dust on boots, cattle moving with the seasons—this is ranch life, one month at a time.

The 2026 Cowboy Calendar is here, featuring western photography straight from our everyday work and wide-open spaces. Hang it in your kitchen, office, tack room, or gift it to someone who loves the West as much as you do.

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One of our favorite traditions when we do Thanksgi One of our favorite traditions when we do Thanksgiving in Montana- Christmas tree hunting at Norma’s. 

At 96 years old, Norma still lives on her small ranch alone up in the beautiful Ovando mountains. There is no one who hugs so tightly, gives so kindly, loves so deeply, or lives so fully. At the same time she has so much grit, toughness, determination and endurance. 

For decades she has invited us to find trees for Christmas, a centerpiece of our celebration. We never know when it might be our last always be sure to make the most of it. 

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šŸ‚ A SEASON OF GRATITUDE ON THE RANCH šŸ‚ Thanksgivi šŸ‚ A SEASON OF GRATITUDE ON THE RANCH šŸ‚

Thanksgiving isn’t just a meal or a day on the calendar — it’s a pause. A chance to recognize the blessings tucked into the hard, messy, beautiful work of ranch life.

This season, I’m thankful for:
šŸ¤Ž The buddy seat in our big green tractor where conversations and memories are made
šŸŽ Old, steady horses carrying my most precious cargo
šŸ’§ Water checks that turn into quiet lunch dates
🌾 A western heritage that connects us to those who came before
šŸ” Work just outside our back door
🄩 An industry that feeds the world — body and soul
šŸ”§ A dirty, buzzing shop full of projects and possibility
šŸ’” Bright lights that help us finish the job, even when it’s late
šŸ„ The miracle of new life and the sacredness of loss
šŸ The steady rhythm of the seasons

Ranching teaches gratitude in a way few things can — through drought and abundance, exhaustion and hope, grief and new beginnings.

Before Christmas rushes in and the world speeds up, I’m choosing to slow down and give thanks.

What are you grateful for this season? šŸ¤

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After taking a year off, The Idaho Rancher’s Wife: After taking a year off, The Idaho Rancher’s Wife: Cowboy Calendar is back on! 

Head to the Etsy shop to snag your 2026 calendar featuring views of Idaho ranching at its finest. 
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#2026calendar #wallcalendar #westernphotography #westernlifestyle #cattle #horses #cowboys #countryliving #ranching #ranchlife #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
Our family is in a different phase of life that is Our family is in a different phase of life that is so fast and so fun! We chase all sorts of experiences and opportunities that we hope help us learn, grow and love life. Sometimes it’s takes us away from the ranch and sometimes it brings us together. But every chance we get, we hold on to days and views like this. 
#ranchlife #ranching #cattledrive #sunrisephotography #ranchlifephotography #cows #cowsonthemove #familyranching #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
I was dosed with my fair share of anxiety when I c I was dosed with my fair share of anxiety when I came into this world, enough that if I let it, would keep me from trying anything new. 

But I refuse to live small and let those fears win. 

So every day I choose to step outside my comfort zone and do something scary. It has been the most empowering and liberating thing I have ever done. 

Most recently I took on feeding the cows solo. Not a big deal for some but for me it was an experience outside my comfort zone that I needed to conquer, so I did. 

It wasn’t as fast as what The Rancher can do, nor was it as pretty, but the cows got fed, the tractor is still running, and no babies were ran over in the process. 

What’s something scary you can do today?
 
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Sometimes the days with the least amount of work t Sometimes the days with the least amount of work to do can have the biggest impact. I love the weeks of moving cows, branding, or working cattle through the squeeze cute but these quieter make me live this life a whole other way. 

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I love cows, especially when the chubby ones come I love cows, especially when the chubby ones come sprinting for cake. What can I say, come running for cake too! šŸ˜ #cakeforcows #cowsonthemove #cattle #ranching #ranchlife #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
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