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Days of Branding: How we do it

April 22, 2014 by Allison

You really should come spend a day branding with us.  You could almost pick any weekend and we would be going out.  Most days we brand the association cattle.  We have 7 ranches worth of cattle together on the range, which means a lot calves!  But more about branding with the association another day.

The day that you want to brand with us is when we do our cattle on the Peterson Place.  We have about 350 cows to sort through and brand.  We start in the morning gathering the cattle from the north. This year we did it in the rain, and what started out as a refreshing little shower turned into a soaker (be glad I didn’t tell you to come until AFTER the rainy year). 

We sort the cows out (but we leave a few… the babies are happier with a momma around) and then start to work.  Actually this year, we had to wait a while before we could start- blame the rain! 

But eventually we got to work.  The ropers rope (obviously) and drag the calves to the “fire” where the ground crew is set up.  The calves are caught and held with Nord Forks.  Don’t know what they are?  (neither did I until I started branding with The Rancher). The are a handy tool that is staked into the ground and has a fork like head catch.  It slips on the calf’s neck and catches at the base of the head.

The forks make for an easy way to hold the calves while we mark, castrate, vaccinate, tag, and brand the calves.  Its a lot to do, so we need some one to run the shots, guys to do the castrating, others to brand and the top dogs mark and tag.  Once we hit our groove we just roll on through them.  Before we know it, the calves are branded and the dinner bells is a-ringin’!

 

 

And then we start over.

We gather in the bunch from the south.  Then sort (and no waiting!), rope, drag… you know how it goes!

Days of Branding

April 21, 2014 by Allison

Branding.  So much branding.  But that’s normal.  Every year at this time we pull out the iron sharpen the knives, start the fire and get to work.  The ranch trucks have an eternal burnt hair smell.  Its stinky and dirty but we love it. 

The boys especially love it because that means LOTS of roping.  The long days are totally worth it when the work is more like play!

There is a lot going on when we are out there.  And you are going to hear all about it!  This week I’m going to show you the how’s, why’s, and what’s of branding on the Eliason ranch.

 

Steak Kabobs on the Grill

April 20, 2014 by Allison

Its grilling season!  OK, I don’t know that there is an official grilling season… but if there were I would declare it open!  We actually don’t wait for grilling season to get cooking outside.  I’m a big fan of cooking on the grill, partly because that means less dishes to do…

One of my favorites to cook on the grill are Steak Kabobs.  The delicious, bite size pieces of meat and veggies are the perfect dinner to change things up!  I will tell you that everyone loves these.  My baby couldn’t shovel them in fast enough.  So fast that I was fishing the too-big-bites out of her mouth to cut them down to non choking size.  And my boy was thrilled with the idea of eating off of a stick (no surprises there- he is ALL boy).  In fact I might cook more on a stick because then he actually eats!

 

So let’s get down to cooking these kabobs!  (PS, isn’t kabobs just a fun word?!)

 

Since they are steak kabobs, let’s start with the steak.  If cost wasn’t an issue, I would tell you to go get a Filet Mignon.  But a nice sirloin or skirt steak will do great.  Whatever you get, cut it up into 1” pieces.  Try to make them as uniform as possible so that they will all cook the same.

 

 

With the steak cut up, cut up some veggies.  Peppers and onion are a favorite at our house.  And zucchini- The Ranch Princess LOVES zucchini.  Some days I do potatoes too.  If you do potatoes, I recommend that you cook them up before.  They won’t cook on the grill long enough to make them tender.  I have even use baked potatoes to slice up!  If I was a fan of mushrooms I would put them on… but I’m not.  Really you can try anything! 

 

 

 

 

This time we had a treat- pineapple!  If you haven’t tasted grilled pineapple, you have to give it a try!  Some people think it is weird to have warm pineapple… I promise it is so delicious you won’t even think about it!

 

Once everything is chopped up, it’s time for some marinating.  Grab some oil, honey, soy sauce, and lemon juice.  Add in a few shakes of chili powder and garlic powder. 
Mix, mix, mix and then pour over the meat and veggies.  I threw the veggies in a big Ziploc bag with the marinade- it made easier to shake and keep them coated with the sauce.  But you can do whatever you want!

 

 

 

When you’re ready for the cooking (like after 2-3 hours… but the longer the better!) pull out your skewers and get to poking.  I put them on the stick and then straight to the grill, but I wish I hadn’t.  They cook so fast that some were ready before others were even on.  By the time we got to eating them they were cooled.  So skewer them all at once, grill them all at once, and then eat them all at once!

 

Turn your grill to high and stay close once you put them on.  Remember that since they are cut small they will cook fast.  And you want crunchy veggies, not mushy.  Cook them about 7-8 minutes, turn and cook another 5-7 minutes.

 

 

You know the next step- EAT and ENJOY! 

 

I have to tell you a funny about these… The Rancher had a Search and Rescue meeting, so he got to take his on the run (a meal on a stick is the ultimate fast food!).  Not long after he left I got a text from him- #Kabobs #Dabomb.  The fact that The Rancher thinks hashtags are ridiculous just makes it all so much funnier!

 

Steak Kabobs

2 lbs Steak, sirloin or flank
Bell peppers
Small Onion
Zucchini
Fresh Pineapple

Marinade

1/4 Vegetable Oil

1/3 Cup honey
1/3 Cup Soy Sauce
1 Tbsp. Lemon Juice
1/4 tsp Garlic Powder

1-2 Shakes Chili Powder

Cut the meat and vegetables into 1 inch pieces.  (I only listed the veggies that we used, but it isn’t inclusive- try whatever you want!) Mix together the marinade ingredients and pour over the meat and vegetables.  Cover and put into the refrigerator for 2-3 hours (the longer they sit, the more flavorful and tender they will be!).

Drain off the marinade and put the meat and vegetable chunks onto the skewers.

Preheat the grill to high heat and lightly oil.  Place the kabobs on the grill and cook for 7-8 minutes and then turn.  Cook for another 5-7 minutes.

Breaking in New Horses

April 18, 2014 by Allison

Every cowboy has a good string of horses and this spring we have been working on ours.  We have two new mares that we have been working with.  Both of them have been pretty labor intensive but with time we have seen some great progress.

The sorrel (red) horse with a white blaze is Loca.  She is a baby from The Rancher’s mare when he was growing up.  If you know Spanish, you know that Loca means crazy.  She’s named that for a reason! For a couple of years now, The Rancher has been trying to work with her.  She’s about to turn 6 (or maybe 7… I’m not quite sure) and for that many years she has been a wild thing.  Too wild to really do anything with.  We haven’t really even been able to get a halter on her, let alone try anything with a saddle.

One day The Rancher was working with her and he had a rope around her neck.  She went to being crazy (like she doe)s and got the rope caught on the fence.  She hit the slack and it tightened up around her neck.  Being crazy already, she started working against the rope and before long it was tight enough that she passed out.  When she tipped over, the rope broke free and loosened up around her neck.  Slowly she got up and walked to The Rancher.  It was like she was a completely new horse! And ever since that day, she has been a gem to work with.

The Rancher has been a little weary of her, knowing how she used to be a little crazy.  But every time he has worked with her its like she has done it hundreds of times.  Now all we need is to get a little experience on her and she is good to go!

Our other new horse is Sugar.  We bought her from a family that had a few horses and other animals, but they really didn’t have the time to work with her.  When we called to tell them we were on our way (it was a few hours to get there) they said, “Are you good with horses?  I don’t think that she has ever been loaded in a trailer…”. Oh boy that was a great start!

Don’t worry, she practically loaded herself!  The next day we saddled her up to see what kind of skills she had.  After only a few minutes The Rancher said, “Well… she has no manners, no steering, and no gas.” I guess that left only room for progress!   And boy have we made some progress-  we can actually get into a good lope and move left and right.  Its still rough, but with time she is going to be a great little pony!

 

The Idaho Rancher’s Wife- 1 Year Old!

April 16, 2014 by Allison

Do you know what today is?  It the 1st birthday of The Idaho Rancher’s Wife!  This really is kind of a big deal for me.  At first this idea of a blog was almost a joke.  As a rancher’s wife I get to do some crazy things it seems and I needed SOMEWHERE to tell these stories.  And then it just took off from there. 

There has been a lot of learning in this last year.  I have learned that I LOVE writing (at least blog writing).  I love, love, LOVE photography.  If you look back over the last year you can see how my picture taking skills are growing.  Hooray!  But mostly over the last year I have learned how much I love sharing our life on the ranch.  There are so many that don’t have a connection to the Ag world, and I can be that connection.  I love it!

So I have gathered together a dozen of my favorite posts over the last year.  Some are my favorites because of the cool pictures that turned out.  A few are favorites because of the time that was spent with my family on the ranch.  Some are my favorites because they are your favorites.  Then there are the ones that I learned a lot from- the ranching part and the story telling part.  And then there are just the down right funny or awesome ranch experiences everyone needs to hear!

I’ll admit there are days that I think that I can’t do this.  You would be surprised how much time this takes- not that I’m complaining, I love every bit of it.  But I want it all to be awesome for you!  To that end I have been doing a lot of learning on how to blog, photography, writing, graphic design… so much! 

I have to thank those that help along the way!  My dear friend Mandy, from Mandy’s Recipe Box has done so much, especially to encourage me through the tough stuff.  My cousin, Lindsay Hart with Hart to Hart Photography, has helped me so much with the graphic design, even when she was moving and 8 months pregnant.  And then there are a few blogs that are my go to for learning how to be awesome at blogging Something Swanky, Living Well, Spending Less, and Kevin & Amanda.

So here is to another year (or ten)!

A Day With the Lemhi Rancher
Beef Fajitas
DIY Spring Rope Wreath
Our Ranching Family- South Dakota Rancher’s
A Rancher’s Wife Chicken Chase
Helpers of All Sizes- Especially Little Ones
Feeding the Calves
The Super Rancher
A Real Fireman
Calving on the Ranch
10 Lessons I’ve Learned as a Rancher’s Wife
Dusted Out 

A Herd of (cute) Baldy Calves

April 16, 2014 by Allison

Our herd consists of mostly black cows.  That’s not really as surprise since we run black angus cows.  But every once in a while I wish we could have a red one or a nice gray.  Just to change things up a little, ya know?  Its really not likely to happen unless we strait out buy one.  Its just not in our gene pool.

Something that we do have thought, are some darn cute baldy face calves!  So we can’t have a little extra color in the herd, but at least we get a little white face here and there.  Not to long ago we bred our heifers to some hereford bulls (they are red with a white face).  It seemed like we didn’t get a single baldy calf out of those batch of babies.  Maybe the genes just needed to flow down a few generations before they started to show because these days we have a nice little herd of baldy faced calves.

We weren’t cross breeding just for the looks, if you can believe that.  There is something awesome that happens when you cross breed. Heterosis.   Instead of getting what you would think is an average performance of both breeds, you end up getting increased performance.  The strengths of both breeds come out!

And in this case we get an extra bit of awesome in the cute calves.  I’m not sure why, but don’t you think they have an extra bit of cuteness to them?  (Should we count how many times I said “cute” in this post?!)

5 Lessons in Cowboy Jargon

April 14, 2014 by Allison

If there was one word to describe April it would be branding.  Every weekend (and a couple of days in between) we spend out on the range branding.  We have our cows out with other ranches, so naturally we have more than just our herd to brand.   I mean it’s not too neighborly to not help our rancher friends!  With so many cowboys around, it’s easy to get lost in the cowboy jargon.  Usually I would say to just smile and nod your head but out here you can’t always fake it!  So here are a 5 words and phrases from the Cowboy Jargon Dictionary (… there is no such thing… I totally just made that up…). 

1. A cowboy’s outfit: No this isn’t in reference to his clothing choice of the day.  A cowboy does have some… different clothing choices but that’s because they choose function over fashion.  But when one cowboy compliments another cowboy’s outfit, he’s talking about his truck and trailer.  Can you imagine cowboys sitting around talking about clothes?  Me either, but it doesn’t take ANY stretch of imagination to see them talking trucks.  Isn’t that written in their DNA?

2.  The green broke horse:  Let’s just start by saying there is nothing “broken” on a green broke horse.  It isn’t “broken” like it doesn’t work.  And it’s not really green, unless it was just rolling in the manure…  A green broke horse is a horse in training.  This means it is inexperienced, or more like unexperienced.  Usually these are young horses with high energy and are a little ignorant to what they are doing.  Just think of your favorite T-ball team- a lot of energy but most of it is spent playing in the dirt.  Eventually they come around to learn the game and pull their weight.  And if they don’t, we trade them off the roster.

3.  Heading… or heeling… you choose!: Most often you hear these words together in reference to falling in love.  You know- head over heels?  But I’m not talking about that, although a branding would be a great place to pick up a cowboy!  When you are talking heading and healing with cowboys they are talking about roping.  There’s two ends on a calf to rope- the head (hence “heading”) or the back feet or heels (yep you got it, “heeling”).   I guess you could rope the front feet, but you really don’t have much control even though they are caught. 

4.  Roping a dogie:  (doh-gee) Don’t get caught thinking we are talking about The Rancher’s dog.  We are referring to the bovine species, not canine.  Put simply, a dogie is a calf without a momma.  I’m not sure how dogie ever got to be part of the Cowboy Jargon Dictionary, other than some cowboy long, LONG ago just started calling his motherless calves dogie.  These calves can make branding a little tricky when you have several ranches worth of cattle together.  Without knowing who the momma cow belongs to, we can only guess who the calf goes with.  Nobody wants to be the guy that put the wrong brand on the wrong calf!

5. “Drag ‘em to the fire”: Those are your instructions once you’ve caught your calf.  The cowboys drag the calf to the fire, where we have the branding irons set up, hot and ready to leave their mark.  A real fire in the middle of a corral with calves, cowboys, and horses sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.  It is if you’re not careful!  But how else do we get branding irons hot?  There are electric irons put there, but there aren’t a lot of electrical outlets amongst the sage brush!   But don’t imagine a big bon fire or even an open fire on the ground.  Back in the day they would dig a hole in the ground and light up the fire.  These days we have a not-so-fancy branding box with a burner (like the burner on a gas stove) to keep the irons hot.  Still plenty hot (I recommend watching your step) but not as likely to reach out a burn a cowboy!

I’d say the last bit of cowboy jargon you need to know is the call to “rustle up some grub,” but I’m pretty sure that you know what that means!  Now that you have some awesome cowboy vocab, you will be ready to get to work and definitely earn your dinner!

DIY Spring Rope Wreath

April 12, 2014 by Allison

 
I have a sad story… I have a new camera that I love but that I am having to learn a few things about.  I used it to take pictures while I made my wreath and then somehow lost them.  I was so sad, but I was able to take new ones of the finished project!
  
Now that spring is beginning to bloom out here on the ranch I’ve been thinking it’s time to pull out the spring décor.  I just need to add a few spring touches to liven things up (or remind me that it’s really spring on those days it doesn’t look like it…). 

The sad thing is, I don’t have a lot.  Oh wait don’t have any… I don’t even have a festive spring wreath or I should say I didn’t because I made one! 

I’ve been wanting to make a wreath for a while and now that I NEEDED one, it meant game on.  And on top of that, I’ve really been wanting to make a rope wreath.  You see, the cowboys have a BIG stack of old ropes sitting in the shop.  Just sitting, begging to be put to use (maybe not for a wreath, but hey…).  Not to mention all of the ropes in the tack room that are beginning to pile up.  You could see how a girl might want to sneak one and get a little creative, right?!

So I did!

I had a few little bunches of spring flowers and some fun spring ribbon that was just enough to make it work!  Out came the glue gun and LOTS of glue sticks and I went to crafting.  Yep, that’s all it took- a rope, flowers, ribbon, glue gun and glue.

It didn’t take long and it turned out super cute… so cute I know you want to make one too!

I will tell you the first thing to do if you grabbed an old, used rope is to shake it or beat it or vacuum it because it has probably gathered some good dust over the miles it’s been.  A little grit could be fun and since mine was going outside, I didn’t try too hard to get rid of it.

With the dust gone enough that you can work without being in your own little dust cloud, grab some twist ties.  You can eve take one off the bread because these are just to help you set your coils.  I found that it was a lot easier to get gluing and make progress if everything was being held together.  Sadly, I only have two hands which isn’t enough to hold in multiple places and glue.  That’s why we have twist ties- or if you are a little boy they work awesome to tether tractors and trailers together…

So get your coils together and glue.  I actually flipped mine over to make sure that if there would be any glue showing it would be on the backside. 

Once your coils are all glued, it’s time to get a little creative with the flowers and such.  I put mine close to the hondue and up the side.  They just kind of happened… there wasn’t much rhyme or reason to how they went.  I added a little raffia too, just give it a little kick.   Then for a finishing touch, I added a little bow.  I have a confession to make- I’m not very good at making bows… So mine don’t get fancy, but they’ll do!

Now that you have this AWESOME spring rope wreath, go hang it somewhere.  Preferably where everyone will see it and love your craftiness.    Or just somewhere that needs a little eye appeal.  I’m pretty sure that it will look awesome anywhere!  And don’t forget to show me!!

Planting a Seed or Two

April 9, 2014 by Allison

When we were in college, The Rancher worked for an operation that did just as much (or more) farm work as it did ranch work.  The Rancher was always a pretty decent farmer, but after working for the Millers, he turned into a dang good farmer.  And every spring that farmer comes out of him when there is a little farm work to do!  Maybe these days I should call him The Farmer…

We don’t do a lot of “farm” work to put up the acres and acres of hay or grain.  We do it mostly when we rotate our crops.  In the fall we will dig up a section of alfalfa that needs replanted or the grain that was alfalfa the year before (does it sound like I’m talking in circles? like crop circles… haha!).  Ok… we dig up the alfalfa, plant grain, harvest the grain, dig up the grain, and plant new alfalfa.  Phew…

Anyway, we dig, or plow, up in the fall so it is ready for planting in the spring. 

Now that it is spring, they have pulled out farming equipment, starting with the roller harrow.  The roller harrow is used to break up the clumps and make the ground ready for the seed.  It also has a drag behind it to get rid of any weeds or such that we don’t want left in.  Once the harrowing is done, we are pretty well ready to plant.

Just a few weeks ago we picked up the seed (one of those things we had to catch up on…).  The nice sunny weather was a good indicator that is was finally time to plant, but when The Rancher hooked up to the drill (the planter) I knew it was the day.  The day to plant a seed or two!

Planting is one of those ranch things we do with a little faith and little prayer.  We want to plant as early as possible to get a good start to the crops.  If we have to replant again in the spring we lose valuable growing time.  We won’t really know if everything went right with the planting for a few weeks when we finally see the green sprouting through.  Doing this every year we have a good idea when we are planting how it will turn out, but there is still those few days that we might wonder.

We took the chance to have a family tractor drive this week while we were planting (and while grandpa was leveling the other, other field…).  I really should have taken a picture of us in there.  You will just have to picture for a minute- The Rancher is driving and I am in the “instructor’s” seat (because I really am the boss, right?!).  The dog is crammed in the corner and our kids are moving from side to side (and under dad’s legs) playing with their tractors.  Of course there is an awesome pile of dirt and dust on the floor to play in, not to mention the seed that The Rancher’s Sidekick grabbed from the drill.  It’s likely that if someone spilled some water in there, something would start sprouting!

I’m sure we are a silly, squishy, filthy looking bunch, but I don’t know if you could find a happier bunch!

10 Reasons Why I Choose to Raise my Family on the Ranch

April 6, 2014 by Allison

 
Growing up on a ranch, I knew that it was the way I wanted to raise my family.  It helps to shape grow a person in so many.  The opportunities for life lessons are never ending.  And, I know I always say this, but the space is pretty amazing. 

No it’s not the only good way to raise a family- there are so many good people that weren’t raised that way.  But this is how I chose to raise my family.  Here’s why…

1.  Everyday we work- we have to.  The cows need feeding, which most often requires us moving them to different pastures.  Fences, building, and equipment need upkeep and they won’t fix themselves.  Bummer…  But my kids know how important work is.  Already my kids are learning to help and work, to do the best we can and to finish a job we start.  More importantly my kids learn to work because they get to go out to work with their dad.  Every day they have the best example they need to see a man working.

2. All around us we see the circle of life.  Every year there is new life that brings excitement and hope.  But not all new life lasts.  Death is a hard thing that we face.  Cows, calves, horses, dogs… It’s hard, but it’s a part of life.  We celebrate life and learn to move on after death.

3. I don’t know if there is a more natural way to talk about the birds and the bees than actually having first hand on the ranch.  All sorts of question come up about why do we keep the bulls away from the cows, where do those babies come from, or what is that cow doing.  Yes my kids see it happening and yes we talk about it.  But that is because it is so easy on the ranch.

4. What better playground do they need than a big ol’ ranch?!  There are fences to climb up, tires to go through, chickens to chase, calves to rope and dirt to dig.  Really the list could go on and on… Because there is so much for kids to do on a ranch- no two days are the same and there are no dull days!

5. With so much around them, ranch kids learn to be creative.  A stick isn’t just a stick! It can build a fence, it can be sword, a gun or a cane.  When my little boy watches what’s happening out on the ranch he gets creative and recreates it with his own little equipment.  I never would have thought marbles would be poop for the manure spreader!  Instead of just building towers from blocks, we make stacks of bales!  Imagination is always at work out here.

6.  As kids grow on the ranch, they are given their own responsibilities.  It my be feeding the family dog or collecting the eggs or even feeding their own 4h animals.  But they know it is their job.  Yes we will help, but it is their responsibility to make sure it is done.  They are responsible for closing the gate when they go through, keeping gas in the 4wheeler and putting their tack away.  With responsibility also comes accountability.  And then consequences.  Some are good- feeding up your steer makes for a food day at the fair.  But not locking the gate means the cows get out.  Responsibility, accountability, and consequences- all lessons learned on the ranch.

7. We would like to think that days on the ranch are always happy and cheery, but they’re not.  Yes we have awesome days of success.  There is that day when you catch your first calf and you feel like you could rope the moon!  But then there are days when you get bucked of, lose a glove, and tear your favorite pair of jeans.  Frustration and disappointment are just as much a part of ranch life.  But with it we learn how to deal with it. 

8.  I love opportunities we have to work together as a family.  We pull out the horses and go to the arena.  We all gather to the garden to gather in our harvest.  We all squeeze in the tractor to feed the cows.  Family is important to me and I won’t let anything, not even the ranch work, get in the way.  Instead, we just make ranch time family time!

9.  Life on the ranch does so much to help with learning in school.  Ranch kids learn everything from learning counting and colors to map reading and geography.  There are science lessons as the crops grow with water and sun, and grow more with a little fertilizer.  The learning never stops- math, science, geography, history, reading… do it all, daily!

10.  My kids have learned where their food comes from and the cost for it.  We don’t grow everything we eat (so thankful for grocery stores!) but my ranch kids know that milk comes from a cow, not made in the back of the store.  And more importantly they know the cost of their food.  Not necessarily in money, but certainly in the time and effort it takes to have.

Yep, the ranch is the place for me to raise my kids.  A place to learn, live, and love while every day is an adventure.  Especially when it is the day you need to teach the 12 year old how to drive the stick shift feed truck…
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Living on cattle, cocoa & kids running wild.
Daily ranch life, western style all with a side of dirt.

Romance doesn’t always come by candlelight. We ha Romance doesn’t always come by candlelight.

We had dinner reservations that night.
The cows had other ideas.

And somewhere between the dust, the frustration, and the manure on my fancy clothes, I was reminded of something.

Love out here isn’t separate from the work.
It’s built inside of it.

It’s built when you both run toward the problem.
When you adjust the plan.
When you show up anyway.

Two hands.
One direction.

There’s a longer version of this story on the blog — but this might be my favorite part of it.

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Roses are red, Violets are blue, We had Valentine’ Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
We had Valentine’s plans…
But the cows broke through!

Boots polished, hair in place,
Dressed up for our night,
Reservations waiting
Under the city lights.

But then we saw them—
Or maybe we didn’t,
A herd of wild backsides
Slipping out of sight.

Nothing says romance
Like a runaway cow chase,
Down the winding highway,
Our hearts already start to race.

Flying out of the pickup
Before it came to a stop,
I’m fairly certain
The Rancher thought I was hot.

Finally to dinner,
Out in the town,
With a hint of manure
Dusting my cowgirl gown.

Maybe this is romance,
Rough, wild, and true—
A night just for us,
Until the cows break through.

Happy Valentines from The Idaho Ranchers Wife!

#marriedtoarancher 
#lifeonacattleranch 
#ranchlifehumor 
#valentineranchstyle 
#loveandlivestock
Every handle has a purpose. Every hand knows the w Every handle has a purpose. Every hand knows the work

#marriedtoarancher 
#lifeonacattleranch 
#HandsOnTheLand 
#RanchLifeBW 
#BehindTheBrand
Confidence comes early. Experience takes longer. Confidence comes early. Experience takes longer.

Some days, I watch our little rancher ride along and marvel at how certain he is about everything. Which pivot should be on or off, which cows should have moved yesterday… the commentary never stops. And yet, he’s learning something quietly bigger than any instruction: that there isn’t one right way to do this work.

Ranching, like parenting, like life, has room for mistakes, experimentation, and figuring out your right way.

There’s more than one right way — and the best one is the one that works for you.

To read more, find the link in my bio. 

#lifeonacattleranch
#marriedtoarancher 
#confidenceplusexperience 
#therightway 
#ranchlife
I used to think standing out was the goal—not to b I used to think standing out was the goal—not to be better, just to feel unique.

Now I’m realizing how freeing it is to be who you are without separating yourself from everyone else.

Ordinary isn’t small.
It’s grounded.
And you can still stand out—
even when you’re part of the herd.

#MarriedToARancher
#LifeOnACattleRanch
#Belonging
#QuietConfidence
#EnoughAsYouAre
On a ranch, learning is rarely free. Sometimes the On a ranch, learning is rarely free.
Sometimes the cost is time. Sometimes pride. Occasionally, far more than we expected.

I learned that the hard way years ago, running an old red swather I was sure I had mastered — until confidence outran attention and the lesson arrived all at once.

Now, I watch my kids learn in their own ways. A six-year-old eager for his turn on the tractor. A teenager discovering that even good runs don’t last forever. Different moments, same truth: experience doesn’t spare us from mistakes — it simply gives them more context.

This week’s story sits with those lessons. With paying attention. With letting people learn. And with why the lessons that cost us something are often the ones that stay.

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•	#marriedtoarancher
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Every morning is a quiet invitation to start again Every morning is a quiet invitation to start again.
To notice more. To assume less.
To pay attention to what’s working and what needs adjusting.

It’s a reminder that experience doesn’t mean we’re finished learning — only that we’re willing to keep showing up.

#lifeonacattleranch
#marriedtoarancher 
#freshstart 
#ontheopenrange 
#learnsomethingnew
Saying we went out to “check water” never is just Saying we went out to “check water” never is just about checking water when we are out on the range. 

It doesn’t say anything about bumping across the range, guessing which road to take when I’m in the drivers seat(and making a U-turn when I guess wrong), or helping a wayward sheep find its own herd. 

We never know what our weekly water checks bring, but I can only hope I get the nap next time. 

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	•	#marriedtoarancher
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	•	#RangeLife
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Ranch life isn’t all wide-open spaces and sunsets. Ranch life isn’t all wide-open spaces and sunsets.

Sometimes it’s a very close inspection from someone who clearly doesn’t believe in personal space.

Like Connie. She doesn’t believe in personal space. And we love her anyway. 
 
#ranchlife #lifeontherange #everydayranching #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher 

Wide open or up close and personal— we choose this life both ways.
Some days look like work. Some look like play. Mos Some days look like work.
Some look like play.
Most are both.

#RanchLife
#LearningByDoing
#RaisedOutside
#LifeOnaCattleRanch
#MarriedToaRancher
Everyone has a story to tell, and I’ve learned tha Everyone has a story to tell, and I’ve learned that I love sharing mine. From funny moments with my kids to my own personal struggles, every chapter matters to me.

Stories like…

…how I always wanted to marry a cowboy—and I did. It looks much different than I imagined—less trees and more desert, for sure—but somehow it’s even better than I ever dreamed.

…how feeding cows every. single. day. might look like our own version of Groundhog Day, yet I look forward to the consistency, the daily check-ins, and the simple reason to head out with the herd.

…how I never learned to rope before meeting my husband, and how determined I’ve been to learn. Some days I was terrified to set my loop up, afraid of messing up or making a scene—but the satisfaction of actually doing it always outweighs the fear.

…how, even as a little girl, my soul yearned to be out working with my dad on the ranch. It was nothing for me to abandon playtime in the yard for work time in the fields.

…how my life is built on choices. I don’t have to be on the ranch—I choose it, because I love the work and being part of something bigger than myself.

These aren’t milestones or a timeline. They’re glimpses of life as I live it.
A story I can’t wait to share more of.
Winter slows things down enough to notice what usu Winter slows things down enough to notice what usually gets overlooked.

On the ranch, progress is rarely dramatic. It’s built quietly, one small decision at a time.

Read more about tradition, stewardship, and the small changes that shape an operation over time. You can find the link in my bio.

#ranchlife #AgLife #stewardship #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
There’s something grounding about a year that begi There’s something grounding about a year that begins and ends on the range. 

Early mornings, dust on boots, cattle moving with the seasons—this is ranch life, one month at a time.

The 2026 Cowboy Calendar is here, featuring western photography straight from our everyday work and wide-open spaces. Hang it in your kitchen, office, tack room, or gift it to someone who loves the West as much as you do.

🧡  Limited quantities available
📅 12 months of real ranch life
🤠  Link in bio to order
One of our favorite traditions when we do Thanksgi One of our favorite traditions when we do Thanksgiving in Montana- Christmas tree hunting at Norma’s. 

At 96 years old, Norma still lives on her small ranch alone up in the beautiful Ovando mountains. There is no one who hugs so tightly, gives so kindly, loves so deeply, or lives so fully. At the same time she has so much grit, toughness, determination and endurance. 

For decades she has invited us to find trees for Christmas, a centerpiece of our celebration. We never know when it might be our last always be sure to make the most of it. 

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🍂 A SEASON OF GRATITUDE ON THE RANCH 🍂 Thanksgivi 🍂 A SEASON OF GRATITUDE ON THE RANCH 🍂

Thanksgiving isn’t just a meal or a day on the calendar — it’s a pause. A chance to recognize the blessings tucked into the hard, messy, beautiful work of ranch life.

This season, I’m thankful for:
🤎 The buddy seat in our big green tractor where conversations and memories are made
🐎 Old, steady horses carrying my most precious cargo
💧 Water checks that turn into quiet lunch dates
🌾 A western heritage that connects us to those who came before
🏡 Work just outside our back door
🥩 An industry that feeds the world — body and soul
🔧 A dirty, buzzing shop full of projects and possibility
💡 Bright lights that help us finish the job, even when it’s late
🐄 The miracle of new life and the sacredness of loss
🍁 The steady rhythm of the seasons

Ranching teaches gratitude in a way few things can — through drought and abundance, exhaustion and hope, grief and new beginnings.

Before Christmas rushes in and the world speeds up, I’m choosing to slow down and give thanks.

What are you grateful for this season? 🤍

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After taking a year off, The Idaho Rancher’s Wife: After taking a year off, The Idaho Rancher’s Wife: Cowboy Calendar is back on! 

Head to the Etsy shop to snag your 2026 calendar featuring views of Idaho ranching at its finest. 
-Full color photos 📸
-REAL ranching, no staging ➰
-Saddle stitch binding📅
-Easy to read + Space to write ✍🏼
-Major US holidays recognized 🎉

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Our family is in a different phase of life that is Our family is in a different phase of life that is so fast and so fun! We chase all sorts of experiences and opportunities that we hope help us learn, grow and love life. Sometimes it’s takes us away from the ranch and sometimes it brings us together. But every chance we get, we hold on to days and views like this. 
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I was dosed with my fair share of anxiety when I c I was dosed with my fair share of anxiety when I came into this world, enough that if I let it, would keep me from trying anything new. 

But I refuse to live small and let those fears win. 

So every day I choose to step outside my comfort zone and do something scary. It has been the most empowering and liberating thing I have ever done. 

Most recently I took on feeding the cows solo. Not a big deal for some but for me it was an experience outside my comfort zone that I needed to conquer, so I did. 

It wasn’t as fast as what The Rancher can do, nor was it as pretty, but the cows got fed, the tractor is still running, and no babies were ran over in the process. 

What’s something scary you can do today?
 
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Sometimes the days with the least amount of work t Sometimes the days with the least amount of work to do can have the biggest impact. I love the weeks of moving cows, branding, or working cattle through the squeeze cute but these quieter make me live this life a whole other way. 

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I love cows, especially when the chubby ones come I love cows, especially when the chubby ones come sprinting for cake. What can I say, come running for cake too! 😝 #cakeforcows #cowsonthemove #cattle #ranching #ranchlife #lifeonacattleranch #marriedtoarancher
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